have you seen Ces's comment to my post?

I just responded to it and am really thinking now about what makes us read slash, what our underlying desires are that come out to play...

b/c i'm with you on some level; i saw the feminist stuff, commented on it, even, but if I reread it won't be for that but for relationship and "emotionally inarticulate romantic payoff" (beautifully articulated btw :-)